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Brenda Lee Adams

September 22, 1969 — August 20, 2023


Brenda Lee Adams


Brenda Lee Adams, 53, of Jaffrey, NH, died unexpectedly on August 20, 2023.  After a lifelong battle with MS, Brenda was forever reunited with her beloved Mother, Linda Crocker.  


She was born on September 22, 1969, in Worcester, MA.  Brenda was a loving wife, daughter, sister, and aunt. She is survived by her husband, Charles Adams, her father, Kendall Crocker, and her siblings, Kelly Record, Mary Spoon, and Travis Crocker. Brenda was a loving aunt to her nephew, Ben Coll, and niece, Emily Stauffeneker. She also adored her five great nieces and nephews, Charlotte, Brody, Asher, Kaimryn, and Halle.


Brenda was an avid reader. She was happiest when surrounded by family. She loved the challenge of a good board game, Parcheesi being one of her favorites. Brenda was a Disney fanatic and cherished her trips to Maine and Florida. She shared a special bond with her cats, Ava and Joey. Brenda was also actively involved as a co-chair of Monadnock Friends with MS.


Brenda’s loving relationship with her Grandmother Frances blossomed through the years when they wintered in West Palm Beach, FL and literally were caregiving for each other. Two peas in a pod!


Brenda’s thoughtfulness knew no bounds, no matter her circumstances. Never did she forget a holiday, birthday, present, or card. In fact, just hours before her passing, her young niece celebrated her 4th birthday and of course, Great Auntie Brenda’s card was there.


A Memorial Service will be held in Brenda's honor on September 1, 2023, at 1:00 PM at the Cournoyer Funeral Home, 33 River Street, Jaffrey, NH 03452.  Friends and family are invited to pay their respects and celebrate Brenda's life.


In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to the National MS Society. Donations can be made online at or by calling 1-800-344-4867.


Brenda Lee Adams will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved her. May her soul rest in eternal peace.

Past Services

Memorial Service

Friday, September 1, 2023

1:00 - 2:00 pm (Eastern time)

Cournoyer Funeral Home & Cremation Center

33 River Street, PO Box 486, Jaffrey, NH 03452

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