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Pamela J. Harvey

April 8, 1962 — September 12, 2018

Pamela J. Harvey, 56, of Jaffrey died peacefully at her home on Wednesday September 12, 2018 while surrounded by her family.

Pam was born on April 8, 1962 in Nashua, NH, daughter of the late Charles Chaffee and Beverly (Ellis) Jarvey. She was a 1980 graduate of ConVal High School in Peterborough and lived in Jaffrey and Rindge during her life. She had worked at D.D. Bean & Sons for almost 20 years before being injured in an accident. After recovering, she had worked with the Corporate Chefs at NEBS and at Mr. Mikes.

Pam enjoyed being outdoors and tending her gardens. She loved driving her classic 1979 Corvette and spending time with her family, friends, and most importantly, her grandchildren.

In addition to her parents, Pam was preceded in death by her sister, Nancy R. Chaffee on January 14, 2015 and by her brother, Edward Chaffee on May 5, 2017

Pam will be missed by her entire family. She is survived by her husband of over 20 years, Mark Harvey of Jaffrey; her daughters, Kathleen Higgins and her 2 children of Jaffrey; Deirdre Nero, her husband Jesse and their 2 children of Jaffrey; Dawn Stacy and her 3 children of Milford, and April Shay and her 5 children of Peterborough; her son Shawn Affeldt and his 3 children of Peterborough; her brother, Rob Chaffee and wife Deedee of Ossipee, NH; her sister, Marion A. Chaffee of Florida; her nieces, Kelly Fiske and her husband Chris, and Robin Merenda and her husband Paul; her nephews, Jason Chaffee and Justin Chaffee as well as many cousins and close friends including Punkin and Patty, (the three peas in a pod), their children and her cat, Nails.

Friends and family are invited to calling hours on Monday, September 17, 2018 from 4:00 to 6:00pm at the Cournoyer Funeral Home, 33 River Street, (Rte. 202) Jaffrey, NH 03452.

A celebration of life will immediately follow calling hours on Monday beginning at 6:00pm at the John Humiston American Legion Post Hall, 20 Webster Street, Jaffrey, NH 03452.

For those who wish, memorial contributions be made in Pam’s name to the Good Neighbor Fund, PO Box 486, Jaffrey, NH 03452 or to the local charity of your choice.

To order memorial trees or send flowers to the family in memory of Pamela J. Harvey, please visit our flower store.

Service Schedule

Past Services

Celebration of Life

Monday, September 17, 2018

4:00 - 6:00 pm (Eastern time)

Cournoyer Funeral Home & Cremation Center

33 River Street, Jaffrey, NH 03452-0486

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Celebration of Life

Monday, September 17, 2018

Starts at 6:00 pm (Eastern time)

American Legion Post #11 Hall

20 Webster Street, Jaffrey, NH 03452

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